How
might a group of people who don't sit comfortably with traditional forms of
church want to shape a corporate gathering space?
Indeed.
How do you do it differently without replicating the same structure even if you
want to? Is it our automatic default?
The
aim was to intentionally develop a post- evangelical space / style for those in
something of an ‘in-between', unsure, re-forming faith place. To build ways of
exploring, interacting, and teasing out issues of faith and life, to be and
learn from one another on the Christian faith journey, to be God honouring, and
develop community. To develop an entirely different culture based on
participation and shared ownership of the ‘space'. A place where the secular is
brought into the room.                        Â
On
a recent trip to sixty
thousand years. The Aborigines build what they need for when they need it and
leave it behind when they don't need it anymore, when the food and water supply
have become scarce in that area. Sometimes they are returned to in a following
season when sustenance is again available nearby.Â
For
some, the normal shape of church has become incompatible with what they need
within their cultural milieu and has lost relevance and way of being in the
Christian faith for them. They feel alienated by the culture rather than it
sustaining them.
For
the Aborigine the essence of who they are and what they believe is passed on
through stories. The story is not contained in buildings or the old structure
but passed on in relationship and journeying together.
For
increasing numbers of people it is the essence of the Christian faith that is
being sought, not the property' that goes with it – it has become time for them
to move to something that better enables and sustains the next part of the
journey.
People
were invited to the New Gathering to contribute to forming the space that could
do that for them. We first brainstormed around ideas of what people wanted out
of a space like this and what they didn't want in terms of general ethos and
then looked at how an evening might look in terms of what would be meaningful
and life-giving.
What
has evolved and will continue to evolve is an hour and a half on alternate
Sunday evenings. We begin with soup and bread rolls and then move into a more
focussed time with a number of components facilitated by different people. The
idea being to build a sense of community around a meal and a high degree of
ownership, involvement and participation throughout the evening. There are six
components –
- a
welcome / call to gather together to meet with God
- a
focus on some aspect of our world and the people in it
- reflection
through some form of the arts – this gives a more multi-sensory / intuitive
engagement
- reflection
through content – can draw discussion
- connecting
– time that allows for people to connect with / engage with God in some way
- the
parting – the closing, leave taking, going from here which acknowledges what
has taken place during the evening and farewells us from the space.
The
ethos developing can be classified under five headings:
- The
gathering is circular, without a front. The setting is a reflection of and
supports group ethos.
- We
endeavour to explore and engage with the world and the community around us.
- The
integrity and choices of the individual will be respected.
- We
will endeavour to support each other's exploration of faith by sharing our
stories, experiences, perspectives and journeys.
- We
let God defend God.
There
are ‘stations' around the room if people prefer to spend some of the time in
contemplation. They might reflect on a symbol, piece of artwork or writing or
light a candle. Just simple foci for meditation.
Sue,
who attends this gathering finds it “a huge relief to find others who are at
the same stage as her in their faith journey.” After feeling burnt out by the
traditional church and its cultural expectations, she feels she is tentatively
opening up to a relationship with God again, but in a safe place for her. She
says she finds it ‘immensely relaxing', that it is wonderful to have freedom to
choose whether to participate or not from the smorgasbord of different people's
ideas and thoughts about faith and to take from that what she wants. She
appreciates that she can be herself and described the different contributions
from people as “a treasure trove of people's creativity – finding faith in God
in creative ways.”
The
biggest challenge has been overturning the very ingrained church culture and
getting people to own the responsibility of making it happen. People largely
expect church to be put on for them, not that they could help make it happen,
let alone alter the way it is going mid-happening by suggesting that we have a
bit more time to discuss a thought. For a few the more provocative ideas are a
challenge to the surety of their beliefs. However, despite that, the
ingredients are there. This could become a very exciting space
Who
can be a part of the new gathering? Can I go back to Aborigine culture which
says a person is an Aborigine when they say they are, when they identify they
are and become part of / enter the story or culture.
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Jenny McIntosh